Seventy of women is covering all the body except the face. The main reason behind not covering the face is to recognize someone as someone’s wife, sister, daughter, mother or maid. This condition has been imposed on women by Islam. Though, in any other religion, there is not any condition. Like in Christianity They may or may not cover themselves. Hinduist also don’t follow this condition.
In short, no other religion imposes such condition. In this era, we review this condition as the main obstacle in freedom of any woman. In this modern age, women need full freedom and equality as men have. No doubt they are also creature of God. Is there not any condition on men so that they must not have to judge any girl’s body shape.
The main thing is, nobody wants female as their daughter or sister, but everybody want a female on their bed to fulfill their need of sex and to water their mouth with female’s soft parts of body by allowing them to get mad like an animal on themselves.
Islam is the only religion that gives space to women as in respectfull manner. These conditions on men and women look harsh on the time but they are for the benefit of both.
Islam asks women to wear Abaya to hide their body shape and also ask men to lower their eye sight when there is any Na-Mahram (Unknown). This is the first step towards women protection from women or men harrasment.
Few days ago, I was eating lunch, one of my classmate asked,” Umar if any girl wears Abaya in her daily routine but not wear on any event. Like she wears jeans with scarf. Is this wrong?”.
I was just “Ahhh???”. I answered him, “Look arround how many girls are walking here and there, visiting cafeterias with loud voices of Hahaha”. Those girls are wearing jeans and tight tee-shirts showing their hot figure to every one just in the search of fame and in the need of being crush of so many people. And now their is another girl who wears Abaya in this hot weather of 45° C . (Abaya is basicaly few layers of cloth to cover the body that is weared on the normal cloths.) She is saving herself from those weird eyes who are seeking stuff to seduce themselves. If on any event she wears any stylish cloth with scarf(covers half of body almost) what does it cost. It costs her happiness. It costs her faith. She might think several time that why she had to wear four to five layers of cloths. But we are so much shamed person. We judge a girl who is not in abaya and we cheer her, praise her,support her. We judge only that girl who wears Abaya in her daily routine and if she is not wearing abaya one day, we start to criticize her. On the other hand we don’t criticize that nature of girls who never ever wear or try to wear Abaya.
There was a secret behind the verses of Surah Ahzab(Khandak) from the Holy Book Quran.Hazrat Muhammad(S. A. W.), last prophet of God! asked his compainions to dig a tunnel, the reason behind digging a tunnel was that not allowing their enemy to enter in the city. They became successful by not making them get in the city. But a problem arose. People of city, from the heart of city betrayed.
This is not just a story, mentioned in Quran but an advice given to all women. Women have to dig a big tunnel arround them by not allowing anybody to enter in their city. Here city is their body. It means not allowing anybody to touch their body, even not allowing anybody to look on them. Once they have succeed. Their own family members will betray against them. But that woman has to be consistent with her decision.
Conclusion is that we argue with each other that women should wear this or that. But, have we argued that we must have to lower our eyes to show respect to women? I hope this article must change your thinking as a girl and as a boy.
Be confident by not allowing anyone to argue on you. Be confident by not giving anyone a reason to argue. Be confident by not showing dishonour to the inner soul.
Once you dig a tunnel, you will be satisfied. That tunnel could be of your best behaviour, moral as a man and abaya, behaviour, respect, honour as a woman.
Be the Change.